Jean McGruder

Jean Elizabeth McGruder (Jackson)

Nov 25, 1929 - May 31, 2020
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Jean and Elmer McGruder died on May 31 at the Hospice of Northwest Ohio, three minutes apart, and two weeks before the June 13th date of their 67th wedding anniversary.

Mrs. McGruder, who died after a short illness, was born to Manson and Mamie Stevens Jackson in Hamlet, NC in 1929, and graduated from Capital Highway High School in Hamlet in 1948. She graduated from the Columbia Hospital School of Nursing, Columbia, SC in 1952. After marriage in 1953, the McGruders moved to Toledo, OH where she worked as a registered nurse at the now-closed Maumee Valley Hospital, in South Toledo, and Lake Park Hospital, in Sylvania.

She was an active member at Warren A.M.E. church and served on the Nurses Guild and the Stewardess Board. She was selected as Mother of the Year in the 90s, and was a recipient of the church’s Trailblazers Award in 2019. She also volunteered for the March of Dimes and as a nurse for Red Cross Blood Drives.

She was the mother of five, and played an active role in the Mothers Clubs, PTA, and the support clubs for band and sports groups at the schools they attended—Ryder Elementary School, Mt. Vernon Elementary School, McTigue Junior High School, Byrnedale Junior High School, Rogers High School and Bowsher High School.

She is pre-deceased by her brother Manson Jackson, Jr., her sister Margaret Samuels, and is survived by her sister Barbara Foggie, Winston-Salem, NC.

Elmer, also known as Mack, who died after a long illness, was born to Alphonso and Dora Coleman McGruder in Wedgeworth, AL in 1928, and grew up in Fairfield, AL. He graduated from Fairfield Industrial High School in 1945, and received as B.A. degree in 1950 from Miles College. He received a Masters of Education from the University of Toledo in 1959

He was drafted into the U.S. Army in 1950, two years after President Harry Truman integrated the military. He underwent basic training at Fort Jackson, and fought in Korea, a black squad leader in charge of white soldiers. In a 1999 Newsweek magazine article, he recalled his experiences saying,” When I arrived at Fort Jackson, the city was a sea of racial problems, but the base was an island. It had been only two years since the armed forces were integrated, but in the 14 months I was on the base, there wasn’t a single racial incident. Believe me, I was looking—I had a real chip on my shoulder about being drafted.”

"When we got to Korea, we were replacements in the Seventh Infantry Division, 32d Regiment. It was 1952, and we were in a stalemate at that point, so our duties mostly consisted of patrols. Sometimes you'd draw fire, and sometimes you'd provide covering fire for other companies. I became a squad leader in pretty short order, had maybe 10 or 12 guys in my squad—a mixed squad, more white soldiers than black ones. I was only challenged once that I remember, by a guy from Far Rockaway, N.Y. I gave the men an order to carry 30- or 40-pound boxes of ammunition, and this guy said he wasn't going to. I told him I expected him to do what everybody else was doing, and he backed down. The white soldiers didn't challenge me, because they knew better than to alienate anybody. You never knew who would be saving you next."

While at Fort Jackson, he met his future wife, Jean, when she was in nursing school. After military service the couple settled in Toledo at the suggestion of his older brother, Dr. Charles McGruder, who was a medical resident at Maumee Valley Hospital.

Following job stints at the U.S. Postal Service and Doehler-Jarvis, Inc., he began a career in education, teaching special education at Sherman School. He also taught at Robinson Junior High School, and taught and served as assistant principal at adult education evening schools. He ended his career in 1983 at Scott High, teaching students in the Occupational Work Experience program.

He was an active member of the former Hyatt-Allen American Legion Post #538, where he served as commander. He was also an active member at Warren A.M.E. Church, having served as Sunday school teacher, as an usher, in the choir, and on the church’s board of trustees, and other leadership positions. He received the church’s Father of the Year Award in 1996 and its Trailblazers Award in 2019.

His brother Charles and his sister Anita McGrew predecease him. His sisters Betty Shaw, Atlanta, and Dorothy Edwards, Lemon Grove, CA, and brothers Alphonso, Monticello, NY, and Orlando, Columbia, MD survive him.

The McGruders are pre-deceased by their daughter Karen and survived by children Ronald and Gregory (Riley Robinson), Washington, DC; Kevin (Larry), Yellow Springs, OH; Katrina Cogdell, and by their grand daughters Jasmine Cogdell-Carswell (Taye), Maya Cogdell, and Brittany Cogdell.
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Doris Parker

Posted at 02:20pm
So sorry to hear of the passing of both . I participated in their wedding in Hamlet, N C as I am a friend and classmate of Gene's sister Barbara'. To God be the glory--Doris Parker, Charlotte, N C

Wendi Joy Franklin

Posted at 07:36am
To My Hometown Friend, Kevin and all the McGruder Family,
I feel your loss of two wonderful human beings on the earth, who knew how to show God's Love to the end to all, but especially to each other. They leave a perfect example for all of us to follow.
Our Prayers and Love are with you and the Family.
May God's Love comfort us all at this time!
Wendi Franklin & Family, Harlem, New York

Harlem, New York

Eileen Vachher

Posted at 08:42am
Ron, you and your family are in my thoughts in this difficult time. Please accept my condolences.
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Donna Mcbride-Neely

Posted at 10:51pm
Please know that my prayers are with you and the family at this time and I have nothing but wonderful memories growing up at 1119 Brookley one door away from the Mcgruders. Love you always
Donna McBride-Neely

Kimberly L. Bailey

Posted at 10:28am
As Christians, we know that this earthly living is temporary however we grow to know and love which is why we cry tears of sadness when passing comes about. I will continue to thank God for the memories and know that God makes no mistakes. Love always, Kimberly L. Bailey and Family.

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